Civil Law: Going To Family CourtMany victims of domestic violence have the option of going to civil court, also known as Family Court, to get a Family Court Order of Protection. Two things determine your eligibility to go to Family Court - your relationship to the abuser and the type of offense that has been committed against you. If you are legally married, legally separated or divorced from your abuser, or if your abuser is the parent of one or more of your children even if you are not and have never been married, then you can seek relief from Family Court. If you are in a gay or lesbian relationship or if you are unmarried and pregnant with your abuser's child but have no other children with him, you cannot go to Family Court.
If your relationship to your abuser makes you eligible, then you can seek relief from Family Court if the offense committed against you is a Family Offense. A Family Offense includes many kinds of acts which constitute certain levels of Harassment, Assault, and Menacing as well as Disorderly Conduct, Attempted Assault, and Reckless Endangerment. It the offense committed against you is not a Family Offense, you must go to Criminal Court to have your complaint heard. Even when Family Court can take your petition, the judge can choose to transfer your case to Criminal Court if he or she decides the offense is so serious that it is better handled in Criminal Court. Most acts of domestic violence are also Family Offenses. It can be very complicated to understand what specific kinds of acts are included in all the different categories of offenses. it is most important for you to know that it a complaint you bring to Family Court is not a Family Offense, you will be referred to the Criminal Court. If you are confused about whether or not you can take your case to Family Court, you can call a domestic violence advocate or the court itself for help.
There are some advantages in going to Family Court:
There are some disadvantages to using the Family Court:
- It is often easier to get a Temporary Order of Protection from Family Court. A judge can give you an Order within a few hours if it is an emergency.
- An Order of Protection from Family Court can do a lot more than order the abuser not to harm you. As in criminal court, a Family Court Order can order the abuser to move out of your home, order him to stay away from your place of work, school or home, order him not to call you on the telephone, and order him to pay restitution. In addition, an Order of Protection from Family Court can give you temporary custody of your children, require the abuser to pay child support, and can settle disagreements over the use of some personal property including the family car. An Order from Family Court can also set visitation arrangements so that you do not have to see your abuser when he spends time with the children.
- You don't need the same amount of evidence to prove Your case in Family Court as you need in Criminal Court. While it is always helpful to bring evidence such as photographs of injuries, police reports, or medical records, if the judge believes what you say even slightly more than what your abuser says, you will probably get an Order of Protection. An Order of Protection from Family Court can last from between one to three years, and you can ask for it to be extended when it expires.
You have the option of going to Family Court with an advocate, with a lawyer or on your own. If you cannot afford an attorney, but would like one, you may be legally entitled to one depending on your income. If you believe you are entitled to one but the court is not providing one for you, an advocate from a domestic violence program may be able to assist you in getting a lawyer through the courts. You may be able to obtain free or low cost legal services from legal clinics operated by area law schools, or be referred to an attorney by your local bar association.
- The burden of dealing with the legal system is on you, not on a prosecutor. In order for your case to proceed, you are the one who must go to court and tell your story to a judge. There is paperwork to complete and you may have to spend a lot of time waiting when you go to file your petition and when you return to Family Court for your court appearance. You can have a lawyer advise you and speak for you in court, but you may need to pay for this representation because free legal services can be difficult to get.
- A Family Court judge cannot put your abuser in jail even if the abuser admits that he did the things you described in your petition. A Family Court judge can only order an abuser to jail if he violates an existing Order of Protection.
If you want, you can go to Court on your own without a lawyer or advocate. This is called pro se (pronounced "pro say") and means 'for oneself'. Although you will have to speak for yourself to the judge, this does not mean that you have to do this all alone. There are people who can guide you through the steps you need to take as you go through the process.
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